To be desired
The evidence that we are desirable is in the desire that another feels for us. If no one expresses a desire for us, then how are we to feel desirable?
My wife expresses no desire for me, she does not long for my touch, nor does she long to touch me. I read of women who express desires for the men in their lives, and I can't help but wonder, how come I don't have a woman who can't get enough of me.
posted by James at 9:14 AM
5 Comments:
Ro,
No my wife's not on the pill. She just has this next to non-existant libido.
She see nothing "wrong" with us living together like brother and sister (sexless).
And she see's my objections and needs as my problem.
Has she always been this way? Pretty much, I'd say. Nobody is without change, and she did not present her this element of herself right away. She waited until we were married.
Pretty much the same kind of mind set as your ex had. A very common phenomina to SWAGE situations.
I'm sure a girlfriend would do a lot to make me feel like I was desirable, much the same way it works for you.
Isn't that ironic. A thing that makes more sex possible, makes sex less likely.
It's like anti-depressants that lower libido... well how stupid is that. Didn't any of those idiots consider how depressing the consequences of a lower libido are going to be to the patient and their significant other? They probably don't have much use for sex in their lives and figured "what the hell".
Or they just figured they could make a fortune off of one problem, and screw any of the complication that their "wonder" drug might cause.
Do I sound a bit peved?
i hear ya. my hubby has a non existant libido. it's totally demoralizing to me
I couldn't stay with someone who didn't desire me! It would make me feel sick. I always wonder how people do it...stay? It's horrible not to feel desired, absolutly horrible. We only live once it's only fair that we have that! Wishing you the best with this!
Hugs
Des
Hey, everyone. This is my first time on here, but all of this sounds painfully familiar. I am a 37-year-old woman whose hubby just doesn't want any sex. He tells me all the time how much he loves me, but he'll even shrug me off or become impatient if I want a freakin HUG!!! I'm looking for ideas.
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