SWAGE on Marriage Vows
Marriage is suppose to legitimize sex. Right?
Everyone knows this rule. But what happens when this breaks down??? You promised to be faithful in body to one person, but they are not there faithfully for you. What are you suppose to do?
Fidelity has to be recognized as a two-way street. It's more than a unilateral promise to NOT HAVE sex with others, it's really a bilateral promise to HAVE sex with your partner. But what does one do when one's partner does not share one's drive for sex? Just because your partner is not interested, that does nothing to relieve your need for sex.
The spouse is the only "acceptable" sexual outlet within the marriage contract. (And the marriage contract is the only "acceptable" sexual outlet by society.) That being the case, then by taking on the role of sole sex outlet, this obligates all participants to fulfill their duty when sex is desired.
It has been said that sex is the glue that keeps a marriage together. Many marriages fall apart because the glue is gone.
How can the marriage adapt, so that it might survive?
posted by James at 10:02 AM
1 Comments:
Well, my husband and I did have sex before we were married. In the beginning, he DID want it all the time -- geez, did he! Now, once or twice a year, and only 5 minutes' worth. He hasn't brought me to orgasm in 7 years!!! There's no way to be sure that your spouse will not change after the vows are exchanged. No guarantees -- and apparently no explanations!
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